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How can I increase the chances of other members contacting me?

Increase your chances of receiving messages

A carefully completed profile attracts interest and makes it easier for others to get in touch. Add detailed information about what is important to you, what you do when you are in a bad mood, what you are proud of, and what your perfect day looks like.

Members want to learn more about your personality, your emotions, and your individuality. Describe your values and ideas and give interested users topics for a creative first message.

Our most valuable tip: Show who you really are and what makes you special! A well-filled-out profile offers numerous conversation starters and can reveal initial common interests.

Completely filled out profiles are contacted up to 70% more often! Answer the “About me” questions to authentically reflect your personality. The more detailed and original your answers are, the better your chances of finding the right partner.

Don't forget to upload several photos of yourself to give visitors a comprehensive picture. A welcoming or humorous “welcome message” directly invites contact.

Finally, you should have the courage to take the first step—it always takes two to build a connection. The other person may be shy at first, so show interest proactively.

LemonSwan Team
Last updated: 10.11.25 Published: 4 hours ago
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