Single on Valentine's Day? Here's how to have a great day
Single on Valentine's Day? Surrounded by couples in love, hearts and roses everywhere, but you're spending Valentine's Day alone? No reason to be gloomy! We'll tell you how to turn the day of lovers into the ultimate singles' day, with everything your heart desires.
Single on Valentine's Day: 10 tips for having a great day
It's not just couples who can have a wonderful February 14. Our 10 tips will show you how to make Valentine's Day YOUR day:
1. Shopping
Around Valentine's Day, many shops offer discounts and special offers to attract couples to buy gifts. So it's the perfect time to treat yourself to something nice.
2. Relaxation
Being single on Valentine's Day means no obligations. When was the last time you really relaxed? Has it been a while? Then use the evening alone to take a long bath with your favorite book (or your favorite TV series) and a nice glass of wine. It will definitely do your body and soul good.
3. As a single person on Valentine's Day, simply treat yourself
Why wait for a man to put a beautiful bouquet of flowers on the table? Or for a woman to give you delicious chocolates? Treat yourself and visit your favorite florist. Or buy your favorite chocolates (which you might otherwise pass by without a second glance!).
4. Go out with single friends
If you don't have a partner, do you have to spend Valentine's Day alone? Not at all! Call your single friends, dress up, and go to your favorite bar together. Nothing is more fun than drinking cocktails in good company. And you can flirt with the nice guy or pretty woman at the bar.
5. Movie night
Whether alone or with friends, all you need for a successful movie night is your favorite film and some snacks (and maybe a good glass of wine). Here are a few movie ideas.
6. Single on Valentine's Day—the perfect time to look for a partner online
As wonderful as Valentine's Day can be when you're single, would you rather spend next year's Valentine's Day in a happy relationship? Then the day of love is the perfect time to start looking for a partner online. There are especially many lonely singles out and about around February 14.
7. Start your anti-Valentine's Day program
Does just hearing the V-word send you into a panic? With all the happy couples in love around you, it can quickly become too much. Time for a little “anti-program.” In recent years, a whole industry of anti-Valentine's Day events has developed. Maybe there's something there for you too!
8. Cook a 3-course meal
Only couples can cook well? Nonsense. Take advantage of Valentine's Day as a single person and make yourself something really nice to eat. Which dish have you been wanting to try for a long time, but never had time for in your stressful everyday life? Today is the perfect day for it.
9. Exercise
Whether it's a brisk walk or a real power workout. Sport helps you take your mind off things. And it also gets you in top shape for your next exciting date.
10. Clear your head
What have you been wanting to do for a long time? Maybe take up a new hobby? Have a good clear-out or start a creative DIY project? What are you waiting for? Clear your head and open yourself up to something new. With this attitude, finding a partner will surely come naturally.
The 10 most annoying comments about being single (and the funniest responses)
Every single person knows them: half-joking, half-concerned comments or questions from family members and friends. As well-meaning and kind as they may be, sometimes they're just annoying. And sometimes they can hit a sore spot, even if you're actually confident about being single.
The best way to counter such comments is with a light-hearted, charmingly ironic remark. We've collected the most annoying comments for you and provide you with a few ideas for responses. And if you can't think of anything to say or simply don't feel like talking about the subject, say so clearly and politely. After all, you don't have to justify yourself for anything.
1. “Why are you still single?”
“Because I'm waiting for Amazon to start offering partners.”
“Yeah, if I knew that, I probably wouldn't be single anymore!”
2. “Maybe you should lower your standards.”
“I don't think you have – your partner is way too perfect for you.”
“I'll think about it when I have a quiet moment.”
3. “You won't find the right person in clubs and bars either.”
“Well, at least I look better in a club than I do when I'm shopping.”
“The chances are even slimmer on my sofa.”
4. “There's a lid for every pot.”
“Then I must be a frying pan.”
“Man, your grandmother couldn't have said it better!”
5. “So how's love going?”
“Backwards and downhill, but it's going!”
“Still the same as last Sunday, Grandma.”
6. “You'll find someone eventually.”
“That's what my psychologist always says.”
“It feels so good when you say that!”
7. “We'll set you up!”
“Do you really want to do that to the other person?”
“Sure, I'll send you my list of criteria when I get a chance.”
8. “Aren't you lonely being single on Valentine's Day?”
“Thanks, I have my hamster.”
“I have friends, family, club mates—you tend to appreciate every quiet minute.”
9. When you haven't managed to do something: “As a single person, you should have time for that...”
“You have no idea how time-consuming this constant search for a partner can be...”
“That's right. Thank you for finally freeing me from my boredom!”
10. In response to the question of whether a friend in a relationship has time: “I can't, we're going out for a romantic dinner.”
“Me too, I'm putting a tea light next to my pizza.”
“You wouldn't believe how romantic it could be with me!”
Conclusion: Being single on Valentine's Day can be wonderful!
As wonderful as being in a relationship is, being single on Valentine's Day can also be a wonderful experience. Have a great day and enjoy yourself, because you deserve it! ;)
