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Tips for safe online dating
Tips for Safe Online Dating
Your safety is our top priority at LemonSwan. Follow these guidelines to ensure your online dating experience remains safe and enjoyable:
Before meeting in person:
• Take time to get to know the person through messaging.
• Consider having a few phone conversations before meeting in person.
• Research the person's social media profiles, if available.
• Trust your instincts – if something seems off, it probably is.
When arranging a first meeting:
• Choose a public place with lots of people around.
• Meet during daylight hours if possible.
• Let a friend or family member know about your plans.
• Share your location with someone you trust.
• Arrange your own transportation to and from the meeting.
• Keep the first meeting short (coffee or lunch instead of dinner).
During the date:
• Stay sober and be aware of your surroundings.
• Keep your personal belongings safe.
• Never leave your food and drinks unattended.
• Ask a friend to call or text you to check on you.
Protect your personal information:
• Don't share your home address, work address, or financial details.
• Use the LemonSwan messaging system until you feel comfortable.
• Consider using a different phone number (e.g., Google Voice) initially.
• Don't share passwords or sensitive personal information.
If you ever feel uncomfortable or unsafe during a date, don't hesitate to leave immediately. Your safety is more important than politeness.